My Dad

 When you become an adult, you often begin to wonder and then realize why you are the way you are. For instance, I've always had this desire, intrinsically, to work hard. I like to get things done and get them done right. I'm usually religiously on time or early, punctual. I worry about things and think about things that I've learned lots of other don't. I feel it necessary to be kind to everyone, no matter what they look like or who they are, and I am usually a pretty friendly person who smiles a lot. I'm not saying all of this to brag on myself, I am saying it because these are the things I learned from my dad. 

If you know my dad, you know he doesn't play favorites. He chooses the right thing even when it's not popular, and he's one of the most honest and kindhearted people I know. He may seem intimidating at times, but that is just his "old-school" way of being a man. When it comes down to it, he'd give the shirt off his back to help someone, and he will always be around when you need him. He seemed to be running for an election when he was at MD Anderson because of his social nature. Even  though he was going through something seriously trying and painful, he always had a smile and a kind word for those he came across.

I've seen my dad on top of the world and I've seen my dad in the lowest of valleys. Dad has always been great at whatever he's done in his life because he's always put his heart and soul into his ventures and worked hard to achieve excellence. He was a pro-golfer when I was a kid, and even after losing some vision after his histoplasmosis and going through cancer and extreme weight loss, he's still better than most! He's also been a salesman for Izod and Coca-Cola, a Recreation Director for the City of Vicksburg, and most recently, a full-time Alderman. His heart was set on making the place he called home beautiful, successful, and safe for his family and friends, and his heart was often broken when things didn't turn out the way he'd hoped. He's the true picture of a good, honest man who was often beat down by the crooked and ugly ways of the world. No matter what, he's always come out on top because he maintained his morals and values regardless of  the cost. He is who he is, and I am so glad he's been a constant in my life...someone I can always count on. He's shown me a lot about who God really is because no matter what, he's always loved me and he's always stood by me. As a teacher, I often see the results of a fatherless or a "not so good father" in the home. I know exactly how blessed I am to have a father like I have, and I understand a great part of the impact he's had on my life and who I've become as an adult. The Bible says the following:

Psalm 103:13 As a father has compassion on his children,; Proverbs 17:27 A man of knowledge uses words with restraint, and a man of understanding is even-tempered.; Ephesians 6:4 Fathers, do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord.;Joshua 1:9 Be strong and courageous. Do not be terrified; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.; Proverbs 22:6 - "Start children off on the way they should go, and even when they are old they will not turn from it."; Genesis 18:19 - "For I have chosen him, so that he will direct his children and his household after him to keep the way of the LORD by doing what is right and just, so that the LORD will bring about for Abraham what he has promised him."

All of these things....they remind me of my dad. He's the father of a fireman/paramedic/nurse, a teacher, and a worship minister, and the kind of man many can admire. He may not know everything (don't tell him that), but he knows how to be a great dad. For him, I am extremely thankful! 

Happy Father's Day Dad! 

It's so funny to see  how things change when a man becomes a Papaw! Those tough guys become complete "softies" when it comes to grandchildren. 

Happy Father's Day, Jake!

He works hard and loves his job as a coach. He's successful, not because it's easy but because he battles until he gets it right. He doesn't make excuses. He did what it took to overcome his struggles with learning in school and went on to get his Bachelor's and Master's degrees from Mississippi College with great grades. He's the same guy no matter where he is or who he is around...what you see is what you get. 

 He's the kind of guy who really plays with his kids. He runs, plays games, paints and draws, watches T.V., and takes naps with them. He does things just because he knows they want to do them.

He's patient, fun-loving, and present. He plays an active roll in our home...changes diapers, gives baths, helps clean, takes kids to daycare, and the list goes on. He talks to them, listens to them (well, mostly with Avery right now, lol) and does what it takes to form a bond and grow healthy relationships. He gets up in the middle of the night to check on Avery and soothe her back to sleep, and he gets up when Bryce is screaming to help calm him down. He goes to every doctor's appointment he can possibly make, and has been to many of them alone with the kids.

He doesn't complain, he just does what needs to be done. He'd do anything for his kids and his family, and I hope one day Bryce is just like him as a father and husband.

Recently, he was baptized again after letting go of some anxiety and fear and recommitting himself to God. It was a moment I couldn't have felt more proud to watch.  He's an athlete who loves working out and being tough, but he has a heart of gold and is loving and compassionate. He makes Avery and I feel loved and secure which can't be an easy task! I feel very lucky to have him as the father of our children and my partner in life.

Happy Father's Day, Jake...

not because your a good dad, but an exceptional and extraordinary one! We love you very much! 

Proverbs 14:26 He who fears the LORD has a secure fortress, and for his children it will be a refuge.

Happy Birthday to Avery!

HAPPY 4th Birthday to 

our (not so) little butterfly, 

Avery Elizabeth! 

6/9/13

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Oh, we couldn't love her more! 

She colors, plays outside, dances, and sings

Toy Story, chocolate, and YouTube videos are a few of her favorite things

At school and at church, she's sweet as can be.

She brings out the "bad" at home for only Mom and Dad to see!

Mommy's learned really quickly, "You don't tell me what to do!"

Didn't everyone say this was supposed to happen at two?

 While she can be trying, sassy, and frustratingly tough... 

Her moments of sweetness cancel out all the other stuff!

She's still got that amazing laugh, twinkling eyes, and a contagious smile...

She's a funny joker with the best personality I've seen in a while. 

 Who can believe Avery  is already turning FOUR? 

Our life without her would be such a complete BORE! 

 She fills this home with so much happiness and love.

For her, we give all the credit to our Father up above! 

                                               

We pray she continues to stay happy, healthy, and free
 As Avery Elizabeth would say, "Happy Birthday to ME!"

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The LORD will fulfill his purpose for me; your steadfast love, O LORD, endures forever. Do not forsake the words of your hands. 

Psalm 138:8

Avery "Funnies" and "Not So Funnies"

* "Mommy, you not my best friend."

* "Mommy, you don't tell me what to do."

* "Mommy, I write you sad note, right now." 

* "No, I not." 

* "Yes, I is." 

* Me: "Avery, if you keep talking ugly, I am going to call Ms. Angie and tell her. It will make 

   her very sad."

   Avery: (putting hand to ear as if on the phone) "Hello, Angie? Mommy don't listen, ok?   

   Bye! Mommy, I call Angie." 

* "Bryce smilin'." 

* "Thank you Mommy/Daddy for givin' that to me!"

* "I don't like that. I don't eat it."

* "I'ma be a ballina!" (ballerina)

* " Oh, that's not good!"

* "I be good!" 

* "I sorry, I is." 

* "Oops." 

* "I scared." 

* "I go to the grocery store, Mommy!" 

* "You got GOT, Daddy!" (thanks Jake :) 

* She also sings her own renditions of "Mary Had a Little Lamb," "This Little Light of Mine," "Happy Birthday," and "Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star."

Avery's 4th Birthday Ice Cream Party

We ate at Chick-fil-a ( a little tradition) the day before Avery's birthday this year. 

Avery's last night as a 3 year old! 

For Avery's birthday party this year, we decided to have a party for just her and her cousin, Cooper at GG's and Papaw's. Uncle Mitch, Aunt Becca, and Cooper will be moving to Ohio soon, and to say we will miss them is an understatement. We had an ice cream party with Avery's requested hot pink cupcakes (made by Mrs. Prejean and were delicious). She got a Mickey Mouse DVD from Cooper, some Twinkle Toe light up shoes from GG and Pap, and some dance stuff for her upcoming camp.  Avery also got a big surprise from Mommy, Daddy, and Bryce at the end- a Jeep! We will celebrate again with Jake's family next week, so our little girl will continue a week long celebration!